Monday, August 22, 2011

Hukum puasa bagi ibu mengandung

 
This is a very interesting topic for me to write as I am now 34 weeks pregnant and fasting. I found this while browsing and was unsure about the part where mothers who breastfeed or pregnant continously can just 'bayar fidyah'. Then i found answers from Yusof Qardhawi here which in line with what the first blog said.
I am somewhat feel uneasy the way the first blogger wrote about the hukum....although 'Islam itu mudah' tapi jangan sampai 'kita ambil mudah'... so the way we write must not make the reader thinks 'Oh! kalau camtu senang la....kalau pregnant/breasfeed tak payah puasa'... I'm writing this to remind myself how can i remember about the hukum. (Thanks to this site too)

KEYWORD
Hukum puasa
Sihat
Kesihatan
Keuzuran

EXPLANATION
Hukum puasa? Wajib ke atas setiap orang Islam yang baligh, berakal & tidak uzur @ mampu.

Jika tidak berpuasa di bulan Ramadan tahun ini? Wajib ganti mengikut bilangan hari yang tidak berpuasa pada mana-mana bulan. Sekiranya tak sempat ganti hingga tiba Ramadan berikutnya, masih perlu mengantikan puasa mengikut bilangan hari yang tidak berpuasa itu PLUS bayar fidyah. Jika tahun berikutnya masih ada hutang berpuasa yang belum dilangsaikan, puasa masih tetap perlu diganti dan FIDYAH perlu digandakan. So if 2008 tak puasa 15 hari and tak sempat ganti in 2009, kena puasa 15 hari dan bayar fidyah untuk 15 hari. 2010 pulak, pun tak abis ganti (tinggal 5 hari lah katakan), seterusnya kena puasa ganti 5 hari and bayar fidyah berganda 5 hari x 2 nilai (2009 & 2010).
Hukum puasa ke atas ibu yang mengandung? Jika dia rasa tak dapat nak berpuasa, apakah sebabnya?
Sebenarnya faktor yang menentukan sama ada kita boleh berpuasa atau tidak ialah tahap KESIHATAN dan BUKAN SEBAB SITUASI KITA MENGANDUNG. Jika ibu yang mengandung itu memang mempunyai masalah seperti hypertension atau mmg ada sakit buah pinggang, dia memang dibolehkan berbuka atas sebab sakit itu. Kalau dia tak mengandung pun, dia dibolehkan berbuka atas sebab kesihatan itu. So kalau tinggal puasa di bulan Ramadan, wajib dia mengqada dan melangsaikan hutang puasa sama seperti di atas.
 
Hukum puasa kalau bimbangkan kandungan/susu tak cukup? This part looks confusing but actually straight forward. Before we are worried, have we tried to fast first? If we have and the doctor says fasting is affecting the baby/milk supply, then we can break fast on that reason from the expert. But still, we still need to ganti puasa and bayar fidyah(sekiranya tak abis ganti pada tahun ke2) macam biasa.

However, based on Yusuf Qardhawi's opinion, kelonggaran diberikan kepada perempuan yang bersalin/menyusu badan setiap tahun berturut-turut. Maknanya tahun 1 tak dapat puasa sbb pregnant, pastu tahun 2 doktor nasihatkan tidak berpuasa kerana didapati susu badan berkurang kerana berpuasa. Then tahun ke 3, mengandung lagi. Thus wanita bertuah ini tidak perlu mengqadakan puasanya dan sekadar membayar fidyah kerana tentunya ia menjadi beban sedangkan mengandung/bersalin/menyusukan anak adalah satu ibadah yang dianugerahkan kepada wanita. Tapi mungkin situasi ini dah tak banyak zaman sekarang. Kalau zaman tok nenek kita mungkin sebab anak sampai 15. Lagipun, bukankah jika kita mengandung, kita dinasihatkan untuk tidak menyusukan lagi anak yang sebelum ini? So kalau anak tuh belum 2 tahun tapi kita dah mengandung, adakah kita masih breastfeed anak kita yang tua? Maknanya still ada break antara mengandung and breastfeed yang tua, so dah tak kira berturut... Wallah a'lam....

Orang yang tak perlu mengqada puasa hanyalah orang tua yang uzur dimana dia hanya perlu membayar fidyah sebab tidak memenuhi syarat wajib puasa yang ketiga. Even musafir, walaupun diharuskan berbuka tetapi masih perlu menqadakan puasanya.

Berpuasa itu banyak kelebihan and I am confident it would not bring any harm to my pregnancy. Not sure about milk supply as i've never got to breastfeed during Ramadan. I guess moms have to eat and drink a lot during sahur to ensure the milk supply is still there. If the supply is still low, then you may break fast but still need to qada the puasa.

Islam itu mudah tapi jangan ambil mudah :-)

Monday, August 15, 2011

15th day of fasting

Wanted to update earlier but laziness kicked in. Wanted to update on Curtain Search III..my Fella Design sale curtains are done and i received them about 2 weeks ago. Guess how much was the service charge? RM120!!! That is really cheap for 3 6 feet windows and 2 feet roman blind (I still haven't paid my auntie yet, have to wait for this month salary. And still can't be hang up yet, need to change current flimsy Ikea poles to a more sturdy ones since the fabric is rather heavy.

My Elyza's curtains also done and hung up end of last month. Just like what i expected. Although the blue stands out but the lily flowers pattern blends with the wall so the curtains is rather subtle and nice....
However, there was a bit of a problem for the roman blind. My eyes just thought the bottom part is tilted. The installer kept on adjusting as i kept seeing it unstraight. Finally i accepted 99% percent perfection because i pitied the installer.

I took pictures of the curtains but doesn't look really nice here. Just like how i felt when i chose the fabric. You have to see it appreciate as it doesn't look nice in photos.

Today is the 15th day of fasting. Still going strong. This time i really eat less than previous Ramadan. Maybe the baby accomodate most of my tummy space. I drool on drinks rather than food. I know what i want to drink but no feelings on food. Usually i want some appetizers and straight to main meal. This time....ahhh! don't care as long as the drinks are special. Well, actually the drinks are the usual: Sarsi, Cooled tea, Sirap... and today i had banana shake with oat for sahur....Heaven man....!